Monday, January 11, 2010
Loneliness grasps the world
Billiard of people there are in this world and they live next to each other and they face each other every single day but they are lonely indeed. We are lonely people now no matter in the quantity of the same creatures around us. People have lost trust for each other and they don’t want to let one in their hearts. People have things to do and they have problems to solve and they have a number of things to care about and they have no time to get rid of the loneliness they have. There are thousands of people you see at the street every day but you will never even say “hi” to one of them. And they will also never say “hi” to you no matter how close you are to each other when in the bus or subway or something. We have people around us but we have no one next to us, we have no one by our side because we never trust people. Loneliness grasps this world and our hearts and it is loneliness we have created and loneliness we develop every day. We meet in the digital world because we are lonely but we can’t see those real people around us.
Loneliness means freedom
Indeed it is so. Loneliness is not a punishment actually, loneliness is a gift. There is no another thing in this world that is better than loneliness. I guess it is the only possible form of true happiness. It is the real happiness but not the emotion that comes and goes just like that. Lonely means having no one by your side, no one next to you, it also means having no one you care about and no one who cares about you and it is actually great. Indeed, where there are no people you have to care about and whose desires and feelings you have to consider on – than you are free. You are free to do anything you want and you don’t have to think about those consequences your deeds are pregnant with. In case you are tired of this place you can easily leave it and find another place you feel great at and no one will blame you for your egoism and no one will call you and ask you to come back just because they miss you and they need you. Loneliness is the greatest gift of this life because it makes you free of everything and it makes you free for everything.
Thursday, April 23, 2009
Loneliness cures for young people
If you thought that the loneliness bug only hits old people or middle age folk then you wrong. Loneliness is felt across the age groups and even young energetic people get lonely. The idea that young people always have a hectic schedule is an illusion created by party animals like Paris Hilton, but in reality even this age group gets lonely.
How does a young person get over their loneliness? There are many ways that teens and young adults can beat being lonely for instance, volunteering is a great way. One can volunteer at a hospital or home for a cause that is important to you. This does not only allow you to socialise but you will also feel a sense of accomplishment at the end of the day. You will feel as thou you did good and really be proud of yourself. Your loneliness will soon fade as you will realise that being lonely, you have nothing to complain about after taking a look at the lives of others.
For lonely young people with lots of energy try joining a gym. Loneliness causes depression and depression can be prevented through exercise so get to a gym and go for a work out. Besides beating loneliness you will get a toned body as well.
Youngsters are all so computer savvy, so use it to conquer your loneliness. There are millions of chat rooms and forums to join which will allow you talk to various people for as long as you like. Chatting will definitely keep you company for hours.
Falling in love conquers loneliness
The best thing about falling in love is that the sense of loneliness almost immediately disappears. Once you find the right one, there is no more eating alone, going out alone or worrying alone. Your whole world changes and all of a sudden you have someone to share everything with. Not all relationships however conquer loneliness. There are some relationships where people say that their loneliness in fact has increased instead of decreased. This is often in cases where partners are workaholics and barely have time for anything else or where one partner is really not concerned with family life leaving the other person to handle all family affairs alone.
In relationship where love absolutely abolishes loneliness, couples say that this is the best feeling in the world. Having someone around even if just sitting in silence is very important. It prevents them from entering into depression and makes them feel whole. Being loved means someone cares about you and everything you go through whether it is stress at work, trouble with your family or any other type of problem is shared with that other person.
Loneliness is about being alone which is not always physical. Feeling emotionally alone is just as damaging. Being in love with someone has the ability of physically and emotionally fulfilling loneliness and is much more effective than friendship or family love. The effects that loneliness has are very dangerous and include things like suicide, bitterness and even murder, so great advice is to find someone to love.
How does a young person get over their loneliness? There are many ways that teens and young adults can beat being lonely for instance, volunteering is a great way. One can volunteer at a hospital or home for a cause that is important to you. This does not only allow you to socialise but you will also feel a sense of accomplishment at the end of the day. You will feel as thou you did good and really be proud of yourself. Your loneliness will soon fade as you will realise that being lonely, you have nothing to complain about after taking a look at the lives of others.
For lonely young people with lots of energy try joining a gym. Loneliness causes depression and depression can be prevented through exercise so get to a gym and go for a work out. Besides beating loneliness you will get a toned body as well.
Youngsters are all so computer savvy, so use it to conquer your loneliness. There are millions of chat rooms and forums to join which will allow you talk to various people for as long as you like. Chatting will definitely keep you company for hours.
Falling in love conquers loneliness
The best thing about falling in love is that the sense of loneliness almost immediately disappears. Once you find the right one, there is no more eating alone, going out alone or worrying alone. Your whole world changes and all of a sudden you have someone to share everything with. Not all relationships however conquer loneliness. There are some relationships where people say that their loneliness in fact has increased instead of decreased. This is often in cases where partners are workaholics and barely have time for anything else or where one partner is really not concerned with family life leaving the other person to handle all family affairs alone.
In relationship where love absolutely abolishes loneliness, couples say that this is the best feeling in the world. Having someone around even if just sitting in silence is very important. It prevents them from entering into depression and makes them feel whole. Being loved means someone cares about you and everything you go through whether it is stress at work, trouble with your family or any other type of problem is shared with that other person.
Loneliness is about being alone which is not always physical. Feeling emotionally alone is just as damaging. Being in love with someone has the ability of physically and emotionally fulfilling loneliness and is much more effective than friendship or family love. The effects that loneliness has are very dangerous and include things like suicide, bitterness and even murder, so great advice is to find someone to love.
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
Lonelines....
In the world we live in today, it is not unrealistic to believe that we are a species filled with more loneliness than ever. We have cast off the idea that we can live in a sense of community and we build walls rather than bridge them. There is a sense of vulnerability between neighbors and few of us really ever reach out in total authentic kindness to another. All of this is done in the name of self protection. Of course, all of this self protection leads to more loneliness. We are a people of fear. We fear being rejected as much as we fear being accepted. If we were accepted for our faults and flaws, wouldn’t that mean we would have to accept ourselves as well?
The loneliness of humankind is growing. More people work together in near silence and more people spend their nights married to near strangers. We just aren’t willing to break down our walls, be vulnerable and real, and then we wonder why our marriages fail and our loneliness returns. Of course, there is a remedy to all of this loneliness. We can break it down at will. We can be honest with ourselves and with those in our life. We can offer only a modicum of excuses, but our loneliness is really our own fault. Whenever we choose to come out of the loneliness and into real and true authenticity, there are plenty of people waiting to embrace us.
The loneliness of humankind is growing. More people work together in near silence and more people spend their nights married to near strangers. We just aren’t willing to break down our walls, be vulnerable and real, and then we wonder why our marriages fail and our loneliness returns. Of course, there is a remedy to all of this loneliness. We can break it down at will. We can be honest with ourselves and with those in our life. We can offer only a modicum of excuses, but our loneliness is really our own fault. Whenever we choose to come out of the loneliness and into real and true authenticity, there are plenty of people waiting to embrace us.
Monday, February 2, 2009
Lonely on New Year’s Eve
Immediately, it should be noted that not all people are equally related to loneliness, but even more so in the holidays: the majority of those who have to stay in the new year alone with each other, are beginning to experience discomfort wild and, whatever was, trying to find a company. It may be that the holiday alone will be the most beautiful and memorable for all the past years!
The biggest challenge in such a situation is to get rid of public clichй: if you look, the celebration of New Year's entirely composed of stamps. Salad Olivier, champagne, fireworks, this president on TV, call Mom and noisy banquet until the morning - to recognize that this is not always what it means for your holiday. And if you remember how often do you have in the company's boring, just friends, or rather, good friends, but no less boring people in the New Year ... Implementation of the New Year's night with someone - it is an inevitable necessity of compromise and adjustment of the behavior of others. Answer honestly to the question: is it worth it so?
If your New Year be happy, you were the one, all the benefits are impossible to count! First, you do not have to tolerate unpleasant people and talk to them just because you are in one company. There is only you and you're free to do something else!
An important positive development is the menu: you do not have to drink champagne Olivier, if you do not want. Focusing only on your taste, you may please yourself any exquisite delicacies, and the most amazing drinks.
Worth will buy a gift. Only a very welcome, very nice, just what you always wanted! And, you can decorate your house, tree, surrounded himself with the most pleasant thing - only for himself, the beloved. In fact, only one, you know. Just what brings you joy and a sense of celebration.
Simply put, if you fell so happy, it is best to interpret and to fully utilize the opportunity to roll this New Year with most expensive and popular man - with itself!
The biggest challenge in such a situation is to get rid of public clichй: if you look, the celebration of New Year's entirely composed of stamps. Salad Olivier, champagne, fireworks, this president on TV, call Mom and noisy banquet until the morning - to recognize that this is not always what it means for your holiday. And if you remember how often do you have in the company's boring, just friends, or rather, good friends, but no less boring people in the New Year ... Implementation of the New Year's night with someone - it is an inevitable necessity of compromise and adjustment of the behavior of others. Answer honestly to the question: is it worth it so?
If your New Year be happy, you were the one, all the benefits are impossible to count! First, you do not have to tolerate unpleasant people and talk to them just because you are in one company. There is only you and you're free to do something else!
An important positive development is the menu: you do not have to drink champagne Olivier, if you do not want. Focusing only on your taste, you may please yourself any exquisite delicacies, and the most amazing drinks.
Worth will buy a gift. Only a very welcome, very nice, just what you always wanted! And, you can decorate your house, tree, surrounded himself with the most pleasant thing - only for himself, the beloved. In fact, only one, you know. Just what brings you joy and a sense of celebration.
Simply put, if you fell so happy, it is best to interpret and to fully utilize the opportunity to roll this New Year with most expensive and popular man - with itself!
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